Hey mate,
Stop playing the games you can’t win. Start kicking ass.
Men and Women are playing games with each other. It makes me sick. I double dog dare you to read this article and then make some kick ass changes.
You and the women who love you will be glad you did…. someday.
Onward!
Look around you. Notice that most WOMEN are playing the, “I’d rather be right than happy game.” They make themselves right, by making the men in their lives wrong.
If you don’t believe me, or want to argue with me, many women want to make me wrong for writing about this, then WATCH some sitcoms. If you don’t have the mental acuity or awareness to see this in REAL LIFE, then just watch a few sitcoms.
Sitcoms mirror REAL LIFE thinking. Men in sitcoms are almost always wrong about something.
Obviously, “the making men wrong game” is making women miserable.
So now what?
Because men don’t want to be wrong, they develop their own losing game. It’s called, “I’d rather do nothing.” So most men, just simply give up. They do “nothing”.
I don’t mean that men are lazy lumps, but for the most part, men do as little as possible, and are doing nothing about “being all that they can be”, or “going for the gold”, or doing what it takes to have “life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness”.
Men have learned, it’s much SAFER and EASIER to simply do as little as possible, drink a beer in the garage, enjoy “the game”, and pretend that you are satisfied.
BOTTOM LINE: Survey says – Most men are no where near satisfied with their lives. That’s why they retreat into the world of fantasy, football, and… you fill in the blank.
So now what can I do?
IF YOU ARE A WOMAN: Ask yourself a question, “Would I rather be right or happy?” Because I bet if you stopped for a second, you would remember that you married HIM for some other reason than to make him wrong 24/7. Make him your knight in shining armor again, and he will become the man he is designed to be.
IF YOU ARE A MAN: Try this one on. “What would I do, if I knew I could not fail?” You’ve been living the “what would I do, if I knew I could never WIN” scenereo for a long long time. Shift gears. Stop driving in reverse.
GO FOR THE GOLD!
Stop playing the games, and start kicking ass.
Your friend, mentor, coach and traininer,
Mr. Twenty Twenty
Ex Hostage – Professional Visionary – King of Kicking Ass!
